You know, life has a funny way of leading you down unexpected paths. Just like if you had told 20 year old me the community of women I would help achieve through starting women only surf retreats, I would have been amazed; If you had told me a few years ago that I would end up funding a dating app, I would have litrally laughed! But here I am, proudly backing Fitafy, a niche dating app for fitness and wellness enthusiasts. Let me share with you how this surprising (and amusing) journey unfolded.

 The Frustrations of Mainstream Dating Apps

It all started with a series of vent sessions over smoothies with literally thousands of women on Goddess Retreats. I would find that everyone had a grumble about their experiences on mainstream dating apps like Tinder and Bumble. Their stories were a mix of comedy and tragedy:

1. Swipe Fatigue: One guest shared, how disheartening it is to be swiping through what feels like endless dating profiles without finding meaningful connections or matches The superficial swiping was wearing everyone down.

2. Casual Catastrophes: Another guest, who was genuinely looking for a serious relationship, recounted her date’s opening line: “I’m not really looking for anything serious.” Her eye-roll could have been heard across town. “Then why are you here?!” she exclaimed.

3. Mismatched Interests: My fitness-loving friends were especially frustrated. “I want someone who understands my 5 AM gym routine, not someone who thinks I’m nuts for doing it,” one of them said. The lack of shared interests was a real sticking point.

 A Lightbulb Moment

One evening, after yet another round of dating app horror stories, it hit me. Why wasn’t there a dating app that catered specifically to people who prioritize fitness and wellness? Imagine a platform where your love of pilates, counting macros or yoga class wasn’t seen as odd, but as an attractive quality. That’s when the lightbulb went off.

 Discovering Fitafy

In my quest to find a solution, I stumbled upon Fitafy, a niche dating app designed for al kinds of fitness enthusiasts. Fitafy connects users based on their fitness routines, dietary preferences, and health goals. It was like the universe had answered my question of ‘Why isn’t there a better way to date online?!’

 Why Fitafy Stands Out

Fitafy isn’t just another dating app; I feel it’s a game-changer for those who value a healthy lifestyle.

Here’s why I fell in love with it:

1. Aligned Lifestyles: Fitafy matches users based on shared fitness and health goals. Imagine finding someone who gets why you love that post-workout glow or the thrill of a new personal best. It’s not just about looks; it’s about lifestyle.

2. Activity-Based Dates: Instead of the usual dinner and drinks, Fitafy encourages active dates like hikes, yoga sessions, and gym workouts. These shared activities promote health and provide a relaxed way to get to know someone.

3. Supportive Community: Fitafy creates a community of like-minded individuals who value wellness. It’s a space where you don’t have to explain why wellness matters; it’s already understood.

4. Holistic Well-being: By focusing on both fitness and mental wellness, Fitafy promotes a holistic approach to dating. Shared fitness activities can reduce stress, improve mood, and contribute to a healthier relationship dynamic.

5. Find New Friends: What’s more, Fitafy isn’t just for finding romantic partners, it’s also a fitness social club. It’s a fantastic way to meet new friends who share your particular fitness interests. Whether you’re looking for a new running buddy, someone to join you in a yoga class, or a partner for weekend hikes, Fitafy can help you connect with others who enjoy the same activities.

 The Decision to Invest

After seeing how Fitafy aligned with my own values and the ethos of Goddess Retreats, I knew I had to be involved. I have always had a strong personal ethos of being the change I wish to see in the world. I felt the same energy I felt when i decided not play by the rules and create the world’s first luxury surf retreats for women. Here was my opportunity to create a better alternative to Tinder. Investing in Fitafy felt like a natural extension of my mission to promote wellness and meaningful connections. Plus, the idea of helping women find a real loving relationship (or at least a great gym buddy) was too good to pass up.

So there you have it. From a series of funny, heartbreaking conversations to a lightbulb moment and finally to investing in a groundbreaking app, my journey with Fitafy has been unexpected and incredibly rewarding. If you’re tired of the superficial swiping and mismatched intentions of mainstream dating apps, I encourage you to give Fitafy a try.

I believe the world needs you to just be you and there are lots of people out there who will love you just the way you are. Who knows? You might just find your perfect match—and a workout buddy who doesn’t think you’re crazy for loving 5am Dawn patrol surf sessions or being a vegan yogi.

For more information on Fitafy and how it can help you find your perfect match, visit their website.

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